I worked out a new role that suits everybody and my boss thanked me and in fact I am glad I can relinquish some of the crap I needed to do before...so s'all good.
I paid a surprise visit to Ma and Pa today and we sat in the garden and had a shandy.....it was grand.
My friend had a yearly check for a health concern and she is ok for another year.
I have filled 3 black bags with stuff for the charity shop as I have had a really good sort out in the little room and have been really strict with myself...have I worn it? no...will I wear it? only if I lose weight (hahahahahaha) do I need it? no.......out it goes.
My bed is fantastically comfortable and I get to sleep in it every night.......not live on the streets.
If you cannot change something, then change how you think about it I suppose.........working for me at the moment.