The mister has a decision to make. Quite a life changing decision. I am neither use nor ornament with regards to advice...I will support him whichever way the wind blows. We would both like some grown up person to come to us and say..'this is what you should do'...as long as that grown up person was not family as they would want to put in their ideas and or suggestions. Our 'go with our gut instinct' way of operating is failing us as one day it points one way and then..you've guessed it...the next day points the other. It is not a health decision, and for that we are grateful, it is a work/job/money decision. I strongly suspect that whatever happens, 6 months down the line we will look at each other and say 'Oh my God..what on earth have we done?'. Being a grown up can be quite perplexing at times....and I say that very mindful of the fact that we are very very lucky to be grown ups...as my Pa always says 'getting old is better than the alternative' and I know that each day above ground is good. Much much more than good.
People all over the world are coping with death, disease, war and terrors that I don't think I can ever imagine.
We are here, living fortunate lives.
Unfortunately, being the flawed human that I am, these thoughts do not distract me from my own concern. Yes, I am that shallow.........what to do? what to do?